normalize asking "what the fuck are you talking about" in meetings
@cliff Have you been spying on me?
@cliff Oh I wish but with ADHD it's half and half whether you're saying what everyone is thinking, or everyone will hate you for missing what was said 5 minutes ago when you spaced out. But for those who can do this safely, please do so, for people like me.
@cliff I do this regularly but I write it Bart Simpson style in my notebook
@cliff I do - sometimes at random - just to harden the conversational aptitude of the others...
@cliff it's called "what the duck are you walking about?"