@popcornreel yes, I definitely didn’t growing up in small town Kansas in the 80’s. But, as soon as I went to college and was around a more diverse population, I actually realized it wasn’t just women who have to move through the world differently. It’s everyone who isn’t assumed to be a white straight dude. I remember realizing that as a white women, I had privilege that other women didn’t. I’ve tried to be mindful of that over the years, but have gotten better about it the last few years.