Fascinated by this portion of the NY Mag story where it talks about people who don't understand "why deadnaming a trans colleague was considered 'bad'"

Because it's not their name. This isn't complicated. No one is like, "Why is it considered 'bad' that I call my colleague Bob 'Steve'?" or "Why is it bad if someone updates their last name after getting married and I keep calling them their old one?"

https://t.co/Trw0ulxWeP

@parkermolloy the same people will also lose their shit if misgendered on accident or yell at their own mother for using their little brothers name instead of theirs when they are getting in trouble for not finishing their dinner.
@elesha Yeah, those are the same people who will be like, "Excuse me, my dog is a girl!" If someone misgenders their pet