systems programming is a lot like sex: girls do it better
@eliza Please, leave me something I can be good at
@eliza it's literally the invisible labor app dev depends on
@eliza arguably true of all programming, at least in my experience. It turns out that the technical problems are almost never the actual bottleneck. I would at her work with 4 emotionally intelligent co-workers than with 10 "10x" developer-dudes.