Sounds like someone hasn't heard of this One Cool Trick (lesbianism)

@raphaelmorgan

I'm a cis man and I've been hearing masculinity is "in crisis" since I was eight. So far as I can tell the "crisis" is "I can't act like an asshole anymore."

@Dseitz @raphaelmorgan And it's the same damn arguments. Right now they bitch about "being woke", but before that it was SJW's, and before that it was "being politically correct". But all of those terms have been about treating others with respect. And yes, sometimes that means helping people or working to repair a more lasting harm.

And at the end of the day, there's another term for acting like that, it's "good people"