Idealistic Pragmatist 
Last week I attended a Zoom hangout for a science podcast I support financially. The host is a regular journalist and the two reporters are science journalists, both with strong backgrounds in biology and health sciences. I don’t want to evoke the wrath of whomever, so I won’t tag them or identify them more than that (other than to say that the podcast is not in English, and the team that makes it are in a country where #masks were once mandated but no longer are). /1
Anyway, as the group got to chatting, one of the questions from the supporters was about how the team is personally handling the fact that the world has moved on from #masking. And ALL THREE members of this smart, exceedingly science-knowledgable team said that they themselves were mostly not wearing #masks anymore. They even discussed at length the psychological disconnect between KNOWING that it works and yet seeing the world around them stop masking. But they themselves STILL stopped. /2
I was so upset I almost left immediately (and almost discontinued my financial support too). In the end I did neither, but I was really pretty shaken by it. Still am, to be honest. /3
As I’ve said before, I can say VEHEMENTLY that I've NEVER experienced whatever feeling gets people to stop #masking whenever people around them aren't masked. Quite the opposite, in fact. But what I DO experience is a kind of heavy exhaustion that comes from being exposed to all the constant pretending the pandemic is over. So hearing these sciencey people who I admire, who clearly KNOW better, casually talking about joining in with the pretence…well, it was hard for me to take. /4
One of them even told a story about having been on a train that crossed over from their country into another country without a mask mandate, and there having been an announcement that people could now take their masks off. And the person SAID it was silly to then be breathing in whatever viruses all the people in the train car around them were now spewing into the air. But they STILL removed their mask…because the people around them had. /5
I’ve certainly witnessed this behaviour in the world enough times, so the behaviour in and of itself doesn’t shock me. But the fact that all three of them were talking about the psychological disconnect between knowing that masking would help the world’s current predicament and no longer masking as if it were just normal and the way things have to be? And without saying: “You know, this is dumb, I’m going to start wearing mine again!” Well, that DID shock me. A lot. /6
And they’ve all had COVID at least once by now—I mean, of course they have. But it’s not even that, because lots of #StillMasking people have had it too. But to KNOW the science behind why you should be masking, and to intellectually recognize that not doing so is nonsensical, and to have actually HAD the experience of not masking impacting YOU PERSONALLY adversely...and yet STILL take that mask off? How the hell does that even HAPPEN? /7
Anyway, I guess what I’m looking for here is comments from anybody who feels similarly. Because it’s starting to feel a little lonely over here on this island that still feels incredulous about and horrified by all the pretending.
Thanks for reading/listening. /8fin
viq@IPEdmonton
I have #diabetes thanks to #flu. I pay quite a bit out of pocket (and have for years now) for #CGM sensors to increase my chances of still having functional eyes, kidneys, legs.
Catching #COVID very well may affect my ability to pay for them.
Unless someone is going to pay for some years of sensors up front, I'm not interested in their opinion about #masks.
I have #diabetes thanks to #flu. I pay quite a bit out of pocket (and have for years now) for #CGM sensors to increase my chances of still having functional eyes, kidneys, legs.
Catching #COVID very well may affect my ability to pay for them.
Unless someone is going to pay for some years of sensors up front, I'm not interested in their opinion about #masks.
@IPEdmonton
Couple days ago was my first time spending some time with friends in a pub/restaurant. And I told them upfront, for me indoors==mask on, no exceptions. There were some questions, but they accepted. I half jokingly told about me trying to figure out how to go to a pool while keeping mask on most of the time.
Society doesn't care much about disabled people, so I don't care what society thinks about me defending myself from becoming disabled.
Couple days ago was my first time spending some time with friends in a pub/restaurant. And I told them upfront, for me indoors==mask on, no exceptions. There were some questions, but they accepted. I half jokingly told about me trying to figure out how to go to a pool while keeping mask on most of the time.
Society doesn't care much about disabled people, so I don't care what society thinks about me defending myself from becoming disabled.
@viq This is my partner's take too. She goes out with friends, them all unmasked, her with an elastomeric respirator firmly in place for the whole time. I can't do it, though. The pretending upsets me too much. I mean, I've made exceptions (like for travelling to see my elderly parents and doing fun things with them), but there are always emotional consequences after so I mostly just stay home. (I hate it.)
@IPEdmonton
My partner hates my elastomeric mask 🤣 I mostly alternate between that and Aura. But, mask stays on anywhere other people breathe.
I've not gone to work events, because part of the point is the free food which mask negates, partly because I'm not that social, partly because it would involve travel, and I don't know what the sleeping situation there look like - I don't quite trust ventilation in hotels.
My partner hates my elastomeric mask 🤣 I mostly alternate between that and Aura. But, mask stays on anywhere other people breathe.
I've not gone to work events, because part of the point is the free food which mask negates, partly because I'm not that social, partly because it would involve travel, and I don't know what the sleeping situation there look like - I don't quite trust ventilation in hotels.
@viq I was thinking about your partner’s reaction to your elastomeric and wondering whether you’re aware that there are elastomerics that look different from disposable respirators but not so dystopian? Two examples you may or may not have heard of: the #FloMask (which has two filter types, one N95-equivalent and one better), and the new [breathe 2] by Prescientx, which is better than N95-equivalent. Just a thought for how to make her more okay with you wearing an elastomeric!
@IPEdmonton
Thank you!
I'll show them and see the reaction. Though at the very least FloMask does not ship to Europe. The other one might, will need to take a closer look.
Thank you!
I'll show them and see the reaction. Though at the very least FloMask does not ship to Europe. The other one might, will need to take a closer look.
@viq sorry for misgendering your partner!
The breathe 2 does ship to Europe. But if it’s a Flo Mask you want (I personally think it’s the only elastomeric that’s actually CUTE, and there are even decals you can buy to make it pretty), I could send you one.
@IPEdmonton
"Them" the masks 😂 No worries, I'm being vague, preferring to not divulge information ;)
I might be able to get stuff from US, but thank you for the offer :) At least in the product photos for [breathe] there's apparently people having inserted images onto the filter, so that might work too.
@viq okay, we’ll, let me know! I’m fine with sending you stuff from here if it comes to that (I’m in Canada but can get either mask without international shipping).