For me at least, getting onto @Mastodon and appreciating the structure of the platform and the tone of conversation has made these other pop-up social networks (Twitter replacements) totally unattractive. No, I donāt want to move up on a wait list by āreferring 5 friendsā; no, I donāt want to be part of another Jack Dorsey project; no, I donāt want to be part of something with weird completely top-down control. Mastodon broke me for other platforms.