I used to think I was cis and assumed that all dudes want to be girls. Now I know I’m trans and still assume all dudes want to be girls.

@rooster the replies to this thread are gonna be girls, either now or later

but for real if i'd thought to ask some of the cis dudes in my life how often they thought about being girls before i transitioned, i could have saved myself some time. had the conversation after with a few, and the one that i'll remember went like this:

"so have you ever thought about what it'd be like to be a woman?"

"yeah, of course. once or twice."

"a week, right?"

"no. like… ever."

@vyr @rooster a friend that didn't know I was trans at the time once asked if I could be a girl for a day, would I? I said yes, and she was like "I bet you'd be pretty"

She was shocked when I came out. Cis people are wild