When I tell parents that secretly spying on their kids' internet activities is not a great look, they ask me "Well, what SHOULD I do?"

There is no all-purpose parenting answer, but this report from Malwarebytes outlines many of the key considerations: https://www.malwarebytes.com/resources/attachments/parenting-and-growing-up-online-10-2022.pdf

@evacide I now ask parents the question if they ever envision their children coming home during the holidays when they grow up and when they say of course, I reply with "then I can't help you, coz If I do that won't happen."