@chadloder@taylorlorenz why are folks not getting the game here? It's attention seeking and strong arming. If they try to appease it will just make it worse....
@hacks4pancakes@chadloder@taylorlorenz Attention-seeking or gaslighting? The cycle is obvious (abuse-forgive-blame-apology), and it keeps shrinking the scope of acceptable behavior - with the victim thankful they're still allowed to participate at all - until they're allies.