Here's, as they say, me:

My instinct was to gently insist on a fallback plan. What about being an artist on the weekends but a psychologist during the week? How about an accountant who draws portraits of clients to submit with their BAS? I already have a pretend job; I can’t afford to support your pretend job, too!

But as I watched their art develop I realised two things: first, that they’re actually good at it; and second, fuck it.

https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/commentisfree/2022/dec/11/dear-year-12-if-youre-going-to-start-a-career-at-the-end-of-the-world-you-may-as-well-follow-your-dreams

Dear year 12: if you’re going to start a career at the end of the world, you may as well follow your dreams

Every year well-meaning adults tell school students their results don’t matter. I’m taking the longer view …

The Guardian

@annaspargoryan speaking as a sometime web developer, and knowing many, I can only add:

Being a *web developer* felt like an excuse to never fully evolve into an adult human.

I'm glad you found your vocation, and hope your child does well too.

@spotrick Ahh, also a good point! Thank you