I feel sad every time a developer tells me they hate agile. no, you hate micro managed scrum. I hate that too.
Too many times I've seen Scrum rituals and rites take precedence over people and learning. Agile is not replanning every 2 weeks. Agile is not Scrum. Agile is not ritual.
Agile is learning. Agile is change. Agile is being focused on the north star while delivering progress toward said north star. Agile is many ways to go forward, not one.