People fail to grasp what is being communicated in this metaphorical story.

Notice that the bartender does not respond by ignoring the Nazi. He immediately and swiftly confronts the Nazi and lets him know he's not welcome in the bar.

Further, the bartender warns that if you just ignore the Nazi, the Nazi will show up with more friends tomorrow.

If they are in your community, you need to confront them swiftly and decisively as the bartender in this story did.

WARNING

If you confront Nazis in person, understand that violence can happen. Hurting others makes them feel powerful. Remember the violence at the Unite The Right protest, such as the teacher who was beaten into the hospital or the car that was driven into a crowd of people.

I'm getting a ton of boosts from another post. If I miss any of your responses in all the activity on my Notifications page, I apologize.
@tofugolem it's also worth pointing out that this bartender obviously speaks from experience: he didn't know what an iron cross was at first, and he obviously feels the sting of regret that the didn't respond better in the past. We learn the "smell" of danger through exposure and failure. We will make mistakes. What matters is our resolve in detecting and marginalizing evil before it grows roots.
@wilbr @tofugolem Just because someone wears an iron cross does not automatically mean that they are a "nazi". Only if it has a swastika or other "reich" symbolism in it's center is it classified as a "nazi cross".
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iron_Cross
Iron Cross - Wikipedia

@CypherCloudsculpter @wilbr
Honestly, most of them aren't going to wear swastikas nor iron crosses.

They constantly change the symbols they display in order to hide from others what they are. If you want to identify them, you need to stay abreast of that stuff.

The iron cross was just for the purpose of the story, which I didn't write.

@tofugolem @CypherCloudsculpter yeah that's why I felt the need to interject about learning to identify them by smell, which comes from experience.

My "smell" is when someone seems to think that everything's a joke that they're in on but you're not. I don't know why but when someone's smiling but my heart has dread in it, I've learned to pay attention to that. Maybe they're not a "Nazi" but they're probably bad news.

@wilbr @CypherCloudsculpter

They think they are smarter than the other conservatives because they are able to hide among them. They call the other conservatives "normies."

This is funny because they are so much dumber than the other conservatives.

@tofugolem One thing that concerns me about Mastodon is, when we block people and servers, are we simply ignoring them?

@bnmng
That's a big grey area for me.

But it's why I brought this up.

If an instance blocks a whole instance over toleration of Nazis, that seems like confronting them and keeping them out of the bar.

But simply blocking them at the individual level? That's more complicated I think.

I understand that the fediverse is supposed to be a place where people can protect themselves from harmful people, but if all anyone does it block, are we properly confronting them?

@bnmng
Twitter is another matter.

Twitter tried to keep the Nazis out. Now that Twitter is owned by someone determined to let the Nazis in, and ban anyone who is against Nazis, we have no choice but to consider Twitter a lost cause.

By leaving and letting everyone know why we left Twitter, we hurt them in the advertising dollars where it matters.

But generally, I try to confront them as much as possible. They are much dumber than other conservative groups.

@bnmng @tofugolem

Yes we are ignoring them just like we are ignoring Gab or Truth Social, which also run Mastodon.

Fediblocking is simple exercise of freedom of association.

No need to engage with the fash.

@sean @bnmng
Blocking them at the federation level counts as "keeping them out of your bar," but the instinct to avoid confrontation is exactly the wrong one.

It's the response they are hoping for.

@tofugolem @bnmng

Right they must be confronted on a legal and physical level. But not in our bar.

@sean @bnmng
All metaphors fail when examined too closely. It really depends on what you mean by "our bar," I guess.

I'm half Japanese, but other than that, I'm not part of a marginalized group. I feel its my responsibility to confront them as much as possible, and I feel frustrated that others aren't.

They've managed to grow a lot in recent decades. They nearly succeeded in overthrowing our government.

It's time to take them more seriously.

@tofugolem @bnmng

I take them extremely seriously. But their ideology is not debatable. Whenever someone gets you to debate your right to exist, you're automatically losing.

I won't engage them in a war of words. They must be defeated politically and legally.

They've lost the right to participate in civilized discourse.

@sean @bnmng
I'm not talking about getting into a logical debate.

If a nation is sliding into fascism, those who have been sucked in will no longer respond to reasoned arguments because fascist propaganda stokes existential fear.

But you do have to confront them, or they take your silence as tacit agreement and move forward.

@tofugolem @sean @bnmng maybe we could create a culture of having a daily/weekly/monthly review of exemplar problematic interactions, so that we’re proclaiming and reinforcing what is or isn’t acceptable conduct in a public, open and regular manner.

@pete @sean @bnmng
I'm not going to pretend to know what's the best course.

Scottish communists stopped Scottish fascists by following them around as they were giving speeches and passing out pamphlets. The Scottish communists generally did childish things to disrupt the Scottish fascists.

Fascists desperately want to be taken seriously.

@pete @sean @bnmng
In my experience, fascists are desperate to prove how strong and manly they are, so that's the best place to attack them. Constantly point out how weak and unmanly they are being.

Hit them in the insecurities, and keep them on the defensive.

@tofugolem @pete @sean
@melissachimera I think there's still a place for positive engagement, as long as it's not used naively

@bnmng @pete @sean @melissachimera
As I already stated, different rules apply when a society is descending into fascism.

The ones who have been sucked in by the fascist movement will probably not respond to reasoned arguments anymore.

It is possible. It's been done. There are people who have been argued out of it. I just don't know if it's worth the time or effort given how often that approach fails.

@tofugolem @bnmng @sean @melissachimera I think we need continuous, organised, deliberate opposition, the creation of a culture which says "we are prepared to continually defend civil society"
@pete @tofugolem @bnmng @sean @melissachimera all I can say that it’s 2022 and it’s sad that this is actually a conversation we have to have.

@crazygrape @pete @bnmng @sean @melissachimera

When I was a child, adults around me were still debating the Vietnam War. I recall liberals throwing the word Nazi at war supporters and thought they were overreacting.

Then Reagan came and the Nazi accusations came again, and I still thought it was an overreaction.

By the time of Bush II, I had to admit that those calling Republicans Nazis were right. It's only gotten worse since then.

@sean @tofugolem
@melissachimera
I can go for hours doing "one the one hand.. on the other hand.." On the one hand, confronting them gives them oxygen like Melisssa said,

On the other hand, I've read good stories about engagement - even positive engagement like the Muslims who offered tea to the people protesting their mosque, or the son of the Stormfront founder who's heart was turned by kindness showed by fellow Jewish students in his university.

@bnmng @sean @melissachimera
With fascists, positive confrontation is not what you're after.

Look into stories of past fascist uprisings that failed.

In Scottland, Scottish communists took the wind out of their sails by following them around whenever they gave speeches or passed pamphlets and openly ridiculed them.

In England, there was significant violence involved in suppressing the English fascists.

@bnmng @sean @melissachimera
When a nation is sliding into fascism, the normal rules of discourse don't apply, because those who have been sucked in by the fascist movement are so hopped up on existential fear that they no longer respond to reasoned arguments.
@tofugolem @sean @bnmng agree w/ you both. In person is the best. Or if you have a team to do battle w/ trolls. I imagine it will be so situational dependent. As Nobel winner & Filipina journalist Maria Ressa (who gets 60 hate mails per hour) wrote “How to Stand up to a Dictator” says, Courage on!
@bnmng @tofugolem that’s a super good question. Not sure there’s an easy answer. On one hand, engaging gives them oxygen. It’s like why universities don’t give ppl like David Duke stage time. Most of the time I imagine online ppl are provocateurs hoping for attention esp to own us libs. On the other hand, you want the FBI and law enforcement to monitor extremists for their plans.
@melissachimera @bnmng
Again, not confronting them can be equally disastrous. That's what the story is all about.

@tofugolem

Two scenarios come to mind. The first is from Sister Act in which nuns show up at a bar. A dismayed biker-type tells his buddy, "If this becomes a nuns' bar, I'm outta here." https://youtu.be/UINnCLkg0Jw

Second, on a more dramatic note, is Cabaret.

A Nazi is thrown out of the Kit Kat Klub in the movie's beginning. The movie closes w scores of them seated for a night out at the same club.

Sister Act - bar scene

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@tofugolem I now owe this bartender a drink...
@tofugolem important missing piece here is that eventually the bartender’s business depends on this group, and so the decision is no longer “easy”. It becomes a choice between a principle vs livelihood.

@mehulkar @tofugolem

The influx of Nazis also drives away clientele who would otherwise continue patronizing his bar.

@tofugolem Precisely. Ignoring a problem DOES NOT make it go away, it makes it worse.
@tofugolem this is true. During the 90s I was a teen; I'd run around and through the crowd to find them. Then I'd point them out to my big guy friends. They'd take care of it. If you didn't, they'd bring friends.
@tofugolem ah, the time before security cameras were everywhere.

@tofugolem

I once found out the hard way that ignoring the first signs of "jock itch" is not the way to deal with a fungal infection of the testicles.

@tofugolem @gregolear here’s your poignant Nazi story from the last @thefive_8

@tofugolem

How to keep Nazis out:
1. Don't spend any time posting about and interacting with them.
2. 
3. Oh hey, look, I have a new keyword to filter posts by. Thanks. 

@vintprox
Ignoring them doesn't make them go away. That's the whole point of the story.

@tofugolem Thanks!

I just heard this story from @gregolear on #TheFive8 last Friday. (He couldn't remember where he'd read it.)

@tofugolem Ah yes, the Parable of the Crustpunk Bar. It's my favourite.
@tofugolem
That's not intended as sarcasm 😅
This is how my TF2 clan server is run. Zero tolerance for that shit.
@tofugolem I was just thinking of this story, mostly because I just learned that Matt Gaetz was made unwelcome by the patron of a local bar the night before last. No idea what he was doing in Nashville. Maybe he wanted to hit on bachelorettes. https://twitter.com/coryleebop/status/1598886028068413440?s=46&t=71Swfof1y9p7qnTsiBwSxQ (image of Matt Gaetz sitting at a bar with an unidentified woman to his left and an unidentified man to his left)
coralreefer on Twitter

“this dude came into our bar in nashville tonight and made literally everyone there feel uncomfortable. then the guy to his left scared him off and then we all cheered 🥳 #MattGaetz #eww”

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@tofugolem Not sure what he meant by dressed in a "punk uniform". I realize that people may not know the difference but punks are typically not Nazi's... Probably more like a "skinhead uniform".
@MangeyOctopus
I'm guessing this story is older. Nazis used to try and pass themselves off as punks, and the mainstream media bought into it, suggesting that all skinheads are Nazis.
@tofugolem
Well skinheads traditionally were the new nazi's... foot soldiers... As punks we would fight with them all the time. We all kind of hung out in the same places, listened to similar music (I guess)... There are anti-fascist skinheads that came out of that and I have known some. At the time skinheads would clash with us at gigs and parties.. where ever. It was kind of a war back then. A war I thought we won... but they never went away.
@tofugolem
I should correct that the origin of skinheads was not necessarily fascist or racist but working class. I should point that out before someone yells at me about it. I am talking about what it morphed in to over the years.

@MangeyOctopus
Originally, skinheads were working class guys.

Bald Nazis did show up dressed like skinheads, which made the skinheads angry, but we shouldn't forget that it was the mainstream media that convinced everyone that all skinheads are Nazis.

The skinheads that weren't Nazis became extremely violent anti-racists, but in the end, they could not win out against public perception, and the anti-racist skins all drifted away, defeated by the media.

@tofugolem to me, I think it is less about confrontation and more about “blanking”. Cutting them off. Blocking. Not giving them oxygen. That’s really what the bartender was doing. Not listening to the “reasonable” arguments and arguing back or confronting the fucked up ideals with counter argument. Just not engaging at all, booting them out and not allowing any discourse
@clarkiestar
That's exactly the point of the story. If you do that, they grow and spread through your community.

@tofugolem Where I grew up, Nazi punks were told decisively to “fuck off.”

If Gen X has any wisdom to pass on to future generations, let it be this.