What is the right answer? I don't know but I am sitting by the door waiting for the postal service to deliver my son's ashes to me so I don't have good perspective right now. I am so heartbroken that as hard as I tried, I could not help my son and the system is not designed to help me help him. I don't agree with Adams' plan but I am not sure what the alternative looks like. So, I am asking you, Mastadon Hive Mind, what does the right solution look like to you? Asking for a grieving mother. /end
