Acid test for any social network or fedi instance:
If you say "fuck you" to a Nazi, who gets banned?
Acid test for any social network or fedi instance:
If you say "fuck you" to a Nazi, who gets banned?
That also seems sus. What did the non-Nazi do wrong?
That's kinda exactly what I'm talking about: does the admin recognize that the Nazi is the one who primarily needs removal or censure, or do they take a "both sides" / "I don't care who started it" false-equivalence approach, or (worst) do they look strictly at "civility" and decide that the person who used a bad word is clearly the offending party?
That assumes the police will recognize the problem and act accordingly.
I think part of what I am highlighting, in the original post, is the fact that too many venues won't notice/recognize that there's a problem until someone curses (or starts physically resisting microaggression -- "what's wrong with a little painting? where's the harm? He was just expressing himself. You against free speech or something?").