@poniewozik
You say people feel "obligated ... not to cede the field ... or the wrong people win".
You're sounding a bit bothsidesy with this, because only one type of person is surrendering territory here, and its not the haters or the authoritarians or the violence inciters.
And nobody wants to use the F-word because it sounds hyperbolic and namecalling, but isn't fascism a real thing, and isn't fascism what people of good conscience really don't want to win?
We have a long history with this shit, much longer that electronic social media existed, and we know fascism is super popular.
We know fascism must be stopped early -- during the recruiting and organizing phase -- or many innocent people will die.
So when you advertise that you're surrendering the territory, and then ridicule the people who remain and struggle, are you saying you don't believe there's a real antidemocratic movement that needs to be fought with everything we have, including "little word grenades"?
What are you saying, exactly, about the ethics of staying or leaving when this much is at stake?