So before I start using this too much I am considering which instance I want to be on.
mastodon.social has a reputation for being under moderated and thus blocked by more and more of fediverse, even though it's the biggest. And it being the biggest also means a lot on here is not of interest.
lgbt.technology sounds like my place but a friend of mine had an iffy interaction with a mod so it's not obvious, still a vaguely iffy communication is like a very small indicator. 1/2