So, I have had advice from @charlesroper (thanks buddy), but I'm curious if having my own server would benefit me say if I used masto hosts lowest price per month... I'd lock it down to just me as admin with 5 main accounts max, just wondering if I'd be charged for follows kinda like website traffic and of course how much media I post, I could always make my content have a set time before it wipes itself bit was curious if others who have their own instance have any advice on this at all?