@CriticalCupcake @CriticalCupcake honestly? I hate to say it but probably my trauma. For years it's defined who I am and how I react to things. As I'm slowly getting away from that and basically building my personality from the ground up the big influences are my love for @1Ring42 and my class and regional identity. You can tek me ow'or' Yorkshire, but you'll never tek Yorkshire ow'or' me!