This post is good. Read it, especially if you're just joining Mastodon from Twitter https://www.hughrundle.net/home-invasion/
Totally agree. I've had a Mastodon account for a while but had trouble connecting with people (introversion issues), so I became inactive. I think I'd have benefited from being a tad more outgoing, because people were so welcoming when I (finally) introduced myself.
The spirit of the article (consent, freedom from toxicity not freedom to be toxic, mutual aid) is absolutely correct. We've had our social experiences shaped by corporations and need to snap out of this malaise.