what are some good options for noise canceling over the ear headphones that dont give you a headache wearing them all day?
@H3KTLC Sony WH-1000XM4 works very well! Just recommended them to my dad and he's liking them. Sounds great on calls, too.
Well padded, tension on the head band is right, the noise canceling is effective but doesn't make you nauseous (looking at you, Sennheiser...), sound quality is excellent.
Far as I can recall, Bose is better at canceling low frequencies and Sony better at high. Depending on your environment, that might come into play.