Cory Doctrow (@pluralistic) nails it again with a clear explanation of the difficult problem of "Collective Action".
`Online, a lot of us have been unhappy with our social media platforms for a long time, but we hang in there, year after year, scandal after scandal, because as much as we hate the platform, we love the people who use the platform.`
From https://doctorow.medium.com/how-to-leave-dying-social-media-platforms-9fc550fe5abf
People say similar things when they're trapped in abusive relationships, or dealing with those who have controlling personalities.