I'm not generally upset that I'm not out in public
it's fine for me to wear jeans & a t-shirt, just like it's fine for anyone else
but some days I look at myself, like today, and realize I dressed myself like a default character creator output
like a newly-generated sim
like the most boring straight guy
plain black t-shirt
plain jeans
boring underwear
boring socks
generic plain old person sneakers
and I think less of myself for it
@stella my thighs are too thick for most long socks
also i have fancier socks in my dresser, i just ended up not wearing them to work today
@hexwren get big fuzzy boots and cat ears and crop tops
go to sock dreams for plus size thigh highs
i appreciate the effort but, like, these are not reasonable solutions for my situation and body
it is like a billion degrees where i live, always
also, no, nobody should see my body in revealing clothing
also also, i am at work where I am very much not out beyond a they/them pin and constantly asking people to not call me "sir"
H. Wren D'Arcy
Stella 