Seriously. Stop worrying about visibility of your toots.
I'm here from bird hell. It's a different place. Things are slower here. Just chat. Be friendly. Relax.
I use Snapchat. There I just chat with people, I don't put stuff out, I use it differently. Different social media is different and that's OK.
Also. You're doing great. You are worth treats, you are worth time. I appreciate you and your input, even when I don't favourite/like 🌟 your toot.