this is a lot coming from me, the uselessly autistic one, but some of the people who use this federated network talk to people like theyve never interacted with a human before
@FirstProgenitor its such a thing because if you're not directly talking to someone, most "social media" kinda defaults to a mode of "personal broadcast/self-talk media" where you just kinda throw whatever you think/feel/want to say out into the void with moderate-to-low expectations that anybody is going to notice or respond.
i wonder if that's also part of the reason social media can make people feel lonelier than if they're just offline.