Anaïs BettsFlying to Portland for an initial consultation for voice surgery. The idea that one day I'm going to wake up with a completely different voice than I've had for the last 20+ years give me a lot of Complicated Feelings
Mostly good ones! But it's a scary proposition and it means that falling back to boymode isn't reallyyyyy an option anymore
Which tbh is good for me, I need to be pushed out of this nest
relsqui@anaisbetts oh man I fucking feel you. I am starting to come around to the idea that I might want to be an enby-who-gets-mistaken-for-a-dude instead of an enby-who-gets-mistaken-for-a-lady and wrapping my head around how rough that's gonna be.
today I used the men's room at a major sporting event for the first time though and that was all right.