I'm so tired of watching someone I care about fuck themself over again and again, and even though they've got a good heart, they just don't seem to have the strength to tell an abusive person in their life to fuck off. It sends me into a spiral of depression every time I hear it. It's legit a trigger, because it reminds me of my own fucked up family. I don't want to cut them out of my life, but gah, I can't do this anymore.