How do you have a conversation with the poly curious?

I just had a conversation with someone who has discovered the poly possibility, and wanted to know more about it.

I suggested Designer Relationships to them (https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/24402980-designer-relationships)

To me, investigating what kind of relationship works for you, seems to be more important than jumping head first into More than Two.

Designer Relationships

Contemporary relationships are in a state of rapid evolution. These changes can and should empower people with the opportunity to develop...

@weft it depends... If it's a single person, I usually don't bother. It's the same as if they are just "shopping around". People on relationship, and a good one, now this is more interesting. Depending on needs, wants, and expectations.
@JoshRollins @weft For me it does depend on the context of the interest. Though I do enjoy messing with a person's perception, it is oddly fun. I will usually have a conversation with almost anyone, answer questions and point them.in the direction of resources.