Of course, there was another guy. She said something to him that she's worried upset him yesterday, she says. She's in a weird headspace that she's been for a week.

I'm not upset over other guy, but I am upset that there's no explanation given to disappearance, not even "I'm overwhelmed right now." I'm upset that I opened myself up and told her things, and so did she, just to stop talking. We were supposed to meet tomorrow.

I'm tired of unstable girls who can't communicate. She's 42.

(3/3)

Things are good, I tell her about some of my life, she tells me of hers. I aim to make the conversation deeper because as fun as teasing is, it's just teasing. She's cool with it, telling me her fears, her situation, about her job, her dog, sounds good...

she goes on a trip @UK. we text less, then things stop. I wait a couple of days, she gets back to me after a few days of radio silence. She's been back for a week.

(2/3)

I am reminded, again, that most women who reach out to me on OKC are looking for something quick and sexual, not a relationship (even if their profile says the opposite).

Someone's who found me online started chatting with me a couple of weeks ago. She's a bit far, but seemed cool. She was into being independent without having a full relationship, as she called it, she wanted her space. I'm busy and have partners, so sure.

few days in and it's anything but sexting. We tease each other. (1/2)

Met someone about 2 months ago (wow been that long...)

She has qualities I haven't seen in a long time. She's an adult, for one, not a snowflake 30 year-old child. Into BDSM (something I do) in a positive way. Smart and artistic, which is important. Physically attractive, and enthusiastic. And she likes me.

But she's on a "phase" of being open. Eventually she wants to be exclusive with someone. I don't know how much of a fact this is.I just want her to keep an open mind.

This will be bad.