Aomine DicegameJun 6, 2018
*casually and charmingly stalks e-crushes to see how they're doing*
Show threadCrosswhispering (inactive)Jun 6, 2018
@Are0h
please do not use stalking for checking others social media (it can be done in a "stalking" way but if you'd do so you will prbly not write about it on social media like that - hopefully). Please do not connect stalking with "casually" and/or "charmingly". There is nothing charming about getting stalked. There is nothing casual about it. Stop invalidating the terms people use to talk about violence.
Show threadAomine DicegameJun 6, 2018

@antifahnen You need to take a step back. No one is invalidating anything.

You do not get to dictate what I do nor frame it in a way that suits whatever way you feel right now.

You have the option of either just not following me or reign in your self righteousness. The choice is yours.

Show threadNeia Neutuladh

@Are0h @antifahnen You get to dictate how you frame what you do. You framed it as stalking, an activity that often ends in violence and is, at a minimum, incredibly uncomfortable for the subject.

I've never been stalked, but your post still gave me a jolt of fear.

Jun 6, 2018 at 5:07pmWeb
Show threadAomine DicegameJun 6, 2018

@dhasenan @antifahnen Well, yeah. And I did not mean it in a negative fashion. I don't take kindly to people telling me that I'm intentionally contributing to toxic environment as that has never been my intent.

That said, I don't have any problems with finding a better way to express that sentiment. I didn't realize it evoked that kind of reaction largely b/c I have not been through it. I learned something today.

But I'll never let someone who I don't know rudely tell me what I'm doing. Nah.