*casually and charmingly stalks e-crushes to see how they're doing*
@Are0h +1 voice as someone who doesn't like that term used in such context.

An acquitance had an stalker for many years, it definitely wasn't anything casual or charming. More like neverending threat to the person's safety and damage to psychological well-being / health.

@lessness I'm cool with that. I can find a better way of expressing it because I didn't mean anything negative by it.

I definitely don't want to present that I am ok with normalizing something like that.

I'll do better.