@Are0h i’m reading the other conversation that kind of evolved from this post and i do understand you POV but i would encourage you to use a term that isn’t associated with sexual violence for these kinds of things.
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@gingerrroot Yeah, I understand the point and have no problem adapting because I didn't mean anything negative by it. That's totally cool.
But trying to slap in the face with a frying pan isn't a great to get me to see one's particular perspective.
Especially from some random white person that I have not interacted with at all.
@gingerrroot And I get intense because I often talk about intense topics on here, so that's fine.
And I'll even take that anger from some folks because I understand where they are coming from. Like if you came at me heated one day, I'd listen because we have certain rapport and I know your intentions even in the midst of you being upset. I would understand.
But from random white people I don't know? Nah. I deal with hostile random white folks all the time. I'm not going to take it from randos.