@bedtimedrillsgt There was a badass woman in my computer science department (flaming red hair and motorcycle to match) whose natural way of speaking included the phrase, "Oh, man, they're sticking it to you with no reacharound!" Most people just nodded, but very few knew what the heck she was talking about -- including me at that time. Who is reaching around what and why? 😆

I learned a lot after we started dating. At one department party she was expounding about how a certain fraternity have lousy taste in porn. Another student quietly asked me if, when she disdainfully described it as, "Vanilla. Vanilla. Vanilla!", she meant that the porn was of only white people. (A reasonable guess knowing this particular fraternity.) It is very funny to me that I appeared wise and knowledgeable simply because I knew that "vanilla sex" doesn't mean #WhiteIsBeautiful.
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