@pj5pj5 I #masturbated in the bathroom of my hotel this morning while my husband slept deeply on our last day of vacation. I pulled my #BatorBalm from my Dopp kit, speared a generous glob on my very #erect #penis and rode eight nice edges like roller coaster hills before joyfully #spilling my #seed on the floor and back onto my #cock to run down my #balls, all with no porn, no cam, no externals. Just me, alone in the bathroom, masturbating and watching my reflection while I talked dirty to myself and summoned my #sperm

Felt awesome as always. I love my penis. I love it when we #SayYesToPenis

Horny in the hotel
Open my pants
Pull out my dick
Jack off
Shoot a load
Sometimes keep it simple
It's all good

#SayYesToPenis

@jackdaddypaul I say yes to penis, I say yes to pleasure, and I say yes to myself !

As I caress my lubed penis, I find it hard to refute to these precepts. In fact, a simple stroke on my penis is enough to demonstrate them. Penis makes me feel good. Penis makes me feel positive about myself. I feel the love and soon say yes to this pleasure that Penis gives me. Yet each stroke is also a celebration of Penis and a gesture of gratitude towards Penis. Masturbation is me saying yes. Yes to Penis, yes to pleasure, yes to being a man.

This being said, I am keenly aware that all the negativity with which society surrounds the act of masturbation still successfully poisons my mind. All this negativity ends up undermining even the most scientifically proven certainties. And this, even if I’m fully convinced and conscious of the benefits (and lack of prejudice) of masturbation. Becoming an uninhibited masturbator is a lifelong journey because of all this negativity, denigration and mockery that continues to circulate about masturbation. No, masturbation is not a perversion, it’s not satanic, and it’s not a weakness either. Yet, as men, we are brainwashed to reflexively belittle this inherent need of ours.

Repeating positive messages in support of masturbation is thus a necessity to help us all internalize that we are not crazy : yes, masturbation is good, yes masturbation feels good, and yes we are allowed to masturbate and enjoy it too.

Thanks, @jackdaddypaul , for reminding me of the goodness of masturbation. Thanks for confirming my desires, validating my needs and offering me a haven where I can feel legitimized when I masturbate. I know very well, intellectually speaking, that it’s perfectly normal and sane to #sayyestopenis, to say yes to pleasure, and to say yes to myself. But it’s comforting and reassuring when a friend takes the time to remind it to me.

I really want to see #SayYesToPenis trend in the Fediverse. I didn’t mean it as just a glib NYE post sentiment, but as a real suggestion that all men get more aware of the ways we reflexively put off or internally degrade #masturbation and to consciously choose to say yes instead.

All we need is to give ourselves permission and remember that self-license, to recognize the moments when we feel horny, when we suddenly remember the intense pleasure that we can enjoy on demand, and simply say yes to ourselves.

This is a way of curing the routine, learned diversion and dissuasion of a lifetime, from our parents stopping us from touching ourselves where we could be seen to the heckling of peers who pushed the narrative of intercourse as the only “real” sex, a home run or score, and derided masturbation as somehow a sign of failure.

Fuck all of that negative conditioning!! Let’s each make a commitment to ourselves today and every day: Say yes to your penis. Say yes to it when it asks for your attention. Say yes to your adult right to own your body, to exercise your ability to feel wonderful, to let your penis out of your pants and stroke it with love.

Say yes to penis.