@jewwhohasitall Alternatively, possibly she is #godspoused and fears ridicule from people making insensitive remarks about being married on the Astral Plane. The best thing to do might be to take her out for a coffee and chat about old times and interests you have in common, assuring her that you have no interest whatever in ever meeting the people she worships with or hearing the details of her relationship with the Triple God. She will find this reassuring.