One boundary I didn’t know I was allowed to set?
“I’m not available for conversations that drain me.”

I thought I had to be “the bigger person.”

To stay calm.

To explain.

To make THEM feel safe - even if I was slowly disappearing in the process.

I thought being kind meant being available

for every rant, every trauma dump, every guilt trip dressed as concern.

But I don’t do that anymore.

Now I say things like:

🖤 “I don’t have the energy for this right now.”
🖤 “Can we talk about something lighter?”
🖤 Or I just don’t reply.

Because my peace isn’t up for debate.

My body knows when a conversation is life-giving or soul-sucking.

And she gets the final word now.

If it costs me clarity, energy, or self-trust —

I’m not available.

🖤

If this feels like a soft hell yes in your bones…

you’re not alone.

Tell me - what boundary are you holding right now?

Even if it’s messy. Even if it’s new. Even if you’ve had to re-set it ten times this week.

I wanna witness it.

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