Aromantic folks, come to my rescue!

Here's the deal... as usual, I'm baffled by the distinction between romantic love and platonic love.

Oh, I'm polyamorous, which I'm sure is a factor in how I see relationships.

I'm a "go with the flow" enby when it comes to relationships. I don't want to force anyone into any pattern. There's no relationship elevator. If a partner and I both agree to move in together, great, but I don't want to pressure someone into this.

So it seems to me that I'm being intimate with some of my *friends*, and all my loves are platonic.

I can absolutely love and adore people, but it does not mean that I want to put them on a "relationship elevator."

I used to think:

* I'm romantically involved with the people I have sex with.

* I'm platonically involved with
all other relations.

I'm starting to think it's all platonic, but there are some people in the group I do have sex with and some I don't.

I don't know if I'm making sense. 😂

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