Studs: Cuddles?
Me: Not right now
S: *comes closer, mrrrring* Cuddles?
Me: Later
S: *stands in my face, forcing me to move or breathe in his fur* Cuddles?
Me: *sighs* Fine. *lifts covers to let him be the small spoon*
S: *cuddles*
Me: Oh! What nice cuddles. What a good boy. Nice biscuits. Good kitty.
…
Me: Yeah I heard it too. I just praised you for doing the thing I didn’t want to do.

This explains SO much. 😹

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