Awwww, just as I was getting off the subway, I complimented someone who looked a bit genderqueer on their shoes, and they complimented me on my outfit and my brooch (a butterfly in non-binary pride colours).
I’d say "one of us".  

And that interaction significantly brightens the day so far, even though my mood wasn't bad to begin with.

#nonbinaryJoy

After a day at work, where I cannot bind due to erratic instances of physical work, Yesterday evening I wore a binder under a button down shirt, a pair of dickies and the cap my husband gave me for my birthday. And I felt so good, so at home in my body  .

#enbyJoy #NonBinaryJoy

I am today a bit more visible than usual (and the ear rings in form of a crescent moon in non-binary colors aren't even visible on this picture).
#tdov #TransDayOfVisibility #transJoy #enbyJoy #nonbinaryJoy

Another small joy. I rarely refer to myself with a pronoun. In my previous toot I didn't have to think about it, "they" came naturally.

#NonBinary #TheyThem #NonBinaryJoy

Looking in the mirror and seeing someone I love being. If my high school self would've seen I look like this middle aged, they would've been over the moon. Back then I thought I'm a freak and tried to own that, not always succesfully. Today I know it's about being queer. Loving it and owning it! 💜

#NonBinary #GenderQueer #NonBinaryJoy

And while I was a bit awake this night I got the thought, that it feels a bit like I am copying/stealing my gender/presentation from (some of) my friends/fedi mutuals. For different aspects I could point to a person that influenced/inspired that.
But in the end the combination feels unique and me, so it's not a bad feeling like I put myself in another box again, more a warm feeling being surrounded by so wonderful and inspiring people/beings.
Thank you all  

#transJoy #enbyJoy #nonbinaryJoy

I am Ellejay, a demi-gray femby.

Still feels right     

#transJoy #enbyJoy #nonbinaryJoy

Feetuary Day 6 👣

Black and white everywhere…
except for one small thing between the stones.

It’s usually symmetrical.
Today it isn’t… half covered in sand.
That tiny imperfection caught my eye.

Bare feet on cold pavement,
city under my skin,
pausing for the detail that doesn’t quite fit.

Sometimes that’s all it takes.

#Feetuary #FeetuaryDay6 #NoFetish
#barefeet #barefooting #feet
#anklet #toerings #smoothLegs #barefooter
#calves #soles #BarefootVibes #Nylons #NoShoesNoGender
#EnbyPride #TransJoy #NonbinaryJoy #QueerAndThriving
#SnagTights #LegsForDays #ThickThighs #Barefoot247
#ChubbyLegs #FootLove #LegAppreciation
#Enby #NonBinary

Feetuary Day 5 👣

Business trip.
Hotel room. Door closed.

The office outfit did its job all day…
now the skirt is gone,
lights are low,
time finally slows down.

Bare feet exactly where they belong.
Same legs, same body…
just the workday left behind.

After work noir.
Quiet. Private. Unapologetic. 🖤😏

#Feetuary #FeetuaryDay5 #NoFetish
#barefeet #barefooting #feet
#anklet #toerings #smoothLegs #barefooter
#calves #soles #BarefootVibes #Nylons #NoShoesNoGender
#footlessTights #thickThighsSaveLives
#EnbyPride #TransJoy #NonbinaryJoy #QueerAndThriving
#SnagTights #LegsForDays #ThickThighs #Barefoot247
#ChubbyLegs #FootLove #LegAppreciation
#Enby #NonBinary #ShortSkirtThickThighs

Taking a mental step back from my current everyday life also feels good, realising that I can just be me   
#transJoy #enbyJoy #nonbinaryJoy