When my normal BossLady Heauxtation shenanigans are back on track, you can BET this dog handling is going to come in handy for at least a few of them.

Thinking of the one who wants to be put in a sleep sack and beaten like a carpet.

#KinkToot
#MeanTop
#SomeoneIsDueForAWorkOut

There's a joke that poly folks have a scheduling kink.

My calendar is another benign tool of control.

I mete out my availability like gold coins and watch a couple of them strain against their leash.

Heh.

#SoPo #ENM
#FemDom #KinkToot #SoftTop

Kink in the wild rarely looks like its depiction in pr0n.

In the wild, it's a Ma'am sitting in her stretchy pants with her ward, talking about all the weird philosophy books he's been reading. She drinks a glass of wine he poured Her, and asserts that anarcho-primitivism doesn't seem all that great an idea for women.

#KinkToot
#FemDom
#LadyBachelor

Me: Why are you sliding in my DMs?
Him: I'm just open to exploring.
Me: IOW, 'put things up my fundament.'
Him: I'm a pleaser, really.
Me: And that means 'sit on my face.'
Him: Wow. How did you know?
Me: 😑

#Dating
#BayArea
#IBlameThePandemic
#EveryoneIsFeral
#AfterDarkMastodon
#KinkToot
#TrollingTheDatingApps

Them: I'm naturally Dominant.🦹🏾‍♂️

Me: No, dude, that's just Patriarchy.

#Dating
#BayArea
#KinkToot

A short scene (only 90 min) tonight but a good one.

The new leather straps I bought are weighty in my hand and feel awesome -- they do the work for me. They also smell wonderful. Mmm...leather.

I also love it when I figure out the best way to strike. Accurately and effectively.

My day gig brings me satisfaction but my kink brings me joy.

#KinkToot
#HeavyD
#LadyTop

A person I'm vetting told me that he used to be a Conservative in his home country.

Me: [putting down my beer] Are you a Tory?
Him: I used to be. [Goes on to explain how Thatcher saved England.]
Me: [apalled, yet struck with new ideas for potential scenes]

#KinkToot
#PersonalIsPolitical
#DecolonizeThis