I just finished rewatching a favorite film: Secretary (2001-2002) with James Spader and the amazing Maggie Gyllenhaal.
While I personally do not live the dominant/submissive theme throughout the film, I *can* identify with the film. I can identify with trying to make sense of a confusing world, trusting to grow and find yourself, defining what the world and the relationships within it are, and perhaps finding the right person...for you.








