So-called "micro" aggressions create an atmosphere of disrespect and exclusion.
Because each individual incident is "micro", reacting to any one incident, an incident that is part of a drip-drip-drip of the same kind of disrespect from every direction, makes the person being disrespected and excluded look petty and irrational.
Ie speaking up and trying to stop the disrespect and exclusion is dangerous for your relationships and your career, and will likely not fix the problem, but instead result in further disrespect of people pretending the problem isn't real.
For example, every time someone at work addresses me as "hi guys", "hi gents", "hi chaps", I want to answer something like "oh, so not me then? I guess I should leave then".
Am I going to do that in every single $&^*ing meeting and to every single damned email? Of course not.
No, I'm going to shut up most of the time, and pick my moments to yet again highlight it while politely dancing around the feelings of the people continuing to actively disrespect and exclude other people.
But I want to say things like this each time I hear or see those words used. [1/2]
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