Jalan and I were talking to Dragonlet (8) about gender, using the Genderbread Person model. The timing is influenced by Dragonlet recently coming out to us as nonbinary.

Among other things, the model separates out Gender Presentation.

So I said that I have a fluid gender presentation, as I wear skirts as often as not and blouses with them when I can (I don't have enough), even though my gender identity is male.

Jalan pointed out that genderfuck might actually be more apt.

I reflected that one of my favorite looks is black pencil skirt, black hose, and very red blouse with matching nail polish, but I wear that in combination with shaved head and full beard, and I don't give a damn that I've got a belly and no breasts or butt.

Yeah, she's not wrong.

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