It took about 70 years for women to get the right to vote in the US. At times it seemed impossible, but 1 state legislator's vote made the difference.
We can choose to contribute something everyday ( big or small) to our communities, and it will make a difference. Hopefully we'll experience the benefit, if not, the next generation will.
Pointing fingers is a fool's game.
Grieve, then focus on where you really have influence and what you can contribute.