I have a hypothesis: In any gathering of musicians, if there is a disagreement as to music to listen to, the Red Hot Chili Peppers are always and every time the correct compromise.
I say this as a 42 year-old deaf-in-one-ear musician who started playing sax at 10 and also plays guitar and keyboard*, and I have friends with all sorts of different musical tastes.
*I distinguish between basic music theory that teaches keyboard, and actually learning to play piano properly