CendriyaJan 23
Ich bitte um Meinung: Beworben für eine Stelle 30 min von hier. Einladung zum Gespräch 120 min von hier (nicht mit Öffis erreichbar). Dort ist die Zentrale. War nirgends erwähnt, hätte ich mir vielleicht denken können.
Ich müsste einen ganzen Tag einplanen und für ein "erstes Kennenlernen" ist mir das ehrlich gesagt zu weit. Ich empfinde das als frech in der heutigen Zeit.
Ich beziehe kein ALG oder
Bürgergeld, schade also niemandem, wenn ich das nicht mache.
#AITAH ?? #Jobsuche
GrimreaperJan 14

AITAH For ending a friendship?

https://sopuli.xyz/post/39610976

AITAH For ending a friendship? - Sopuli

My [28M] friend [32M] has been dating his bisexual girlfriend [32F] for 7 years; they have a kid together, but they recently broke up. He was EXTREMELY controlling and hit her once; he’s a huge Trump supporter. Red Pill guy loves Andrew Tate, Andrew Wilson, Fresh N Fit and other Red Pill gurus. So recently they broke up, and she started seeing a 22-year-old woman nurse who just graduated from nursing school. She’s having a get-together and invited my friend’s ex, and my friend’s ex completely lost his shit because she’s going to the get-together. He yelled at her and screamed at her and even almost got physical with her until she just left. And I decided I couldn’t be friends with him after that. My parents told me I was being a bad friend; he’s going through a lot, and I’m being “selfish”. AITAH?

BioSensor0494Nov 24

AITA for possibly taking it too easy on my little brother after he "spiked" our family friend's drink?

https://lemmy.world/post/39228284

AITA for possibly taking it too easy on my little brother after he "spiked" our family friend's drink? - Lemmy.World

I’m a 22m college student right now, and my little brother is in grade 9. For the past 5 days, our parents have been overseas, so my bro and I are staying at home, and just because I’m studying for the MCAT and really stressing out, I’m being helped in looking after my brother by our long time female family friend named Rina, who turned 44 this summer. I myself have known Rina since I was 5 years old, and I actually see her sexually. So does my little brother. Despite this, she seems to be totally unaware of our feelings towards her, and she openly tells us to consider her our “older sister”. We like it because she’s a very kind person, and she’s really, really nice to both of us and to our family. She also always really casual with exposing her skin, and she doesn’t seem to know the effect it has on my little brother lol. Two nights ago, Rina invited her boyfriend over to our house, with our approval and my parents did give her permission to do this if she felt like it. I’m not sure if she was allowed to do this, but she helped herself to our alcohol, and got quite drunk while her boyfriend was the designated sober person. Whenever Rina gets drunk, she just gets utterly adorable, and I think it really pushed my brother to the edge. Because last night, in an effort to see her all cute and letting her guard down again, he spiked her drink with alcohol. She saw right through it, and it really freaked her out, even though it didn’t do much harm to her (she stopped drinking immediately). She got my brother to fess up, and she didn’t take it very well at all. Today, I was at home, studying, when Rina walked in. I could tell she was trying to put up a brave face, and she told me that she was waiting for my brother to come home so that she could chat with him. When he did come home, however, she kinda froze up. She tried acting normal, and tried making us dinner, but she started freaking out and puked a lot. Her cooking is always amazing, and this was the only time my brother and I weren’t comfortable with eating it…I just now walked in on my brother lying in his bed, crying, and I did my best to comfort him, and patted him on the head and managed to get him to calm down… Am I doing this right? I have more than a week left until my parents come home.

WavelengthLambdaNov 20

AITA for logging onto my roommate's phone and changing her background image?

https://lemmy.world/post/39053409

AITA for logging onto my roommate's phone and changing her background image? - Lemmy.World

I (29M) live just with my roommate, “R” (29F) in the East Coast (I do have romantic feelings for her). R is a high school teacher, and during the 2024-2025 school year (ending this summer 2025), she was the homeroom teacher for a Japanese exchange student, who at the time was 15. He had thick, wavy hair and was a very friendly-looking person, and was pretty popular with his female classmates. She bonded exceptionally well with this student, because R herself is half-White, half-Japanese. She bonded well enough that during his last days in the US, she told him to keep in touch, and to send pictures of his graduation (which I consider to be crossing a boundary). This past October, we learnt that the Japanese exchange student died from the extreme pressures of academics and social isolation back home. R was extremely distraught, and spent a while binging on alcohol to cope with it. So shortly after we found out that the Japanese boy had died, I found out that R actually has a picture of that boy as the background image for her phone! While I respect her grief, I took this as another huge violation of boundaries (imagine if it was a male teacher who had a picture of his female student on his phone). While she was drunk and sleeping, I had grabbed her phone and just changed the background picture (I did figure out her password a while ago, by the way). I didn’t really care that she would find out later on, because I needed her to (1) see that she’s crossed all these boundaries, and (2) move on, for her own sake. AITA?

R3SpaceNov 15

Were we the assholes for keeping this guy on our sports team who turned out to be a perv?

https://lemmy.world/post/38822486

Were we the assholes for keeping this guy on our sports team who turned out to be a perv? - Lemmy.World

I (35m) happen to do some work at my local university and alma mater, helping out student athletes. I’ve become close with one athlete, a 23 year old female student, “C”, who is half-French and half-Korean. She spent much of her life growing up in France before moving to the US starting in high school. Recently, it’s been found out that many of the male athletes whom C trusts have been stalking her, both in real life and online. The guys have gone on her social media and downloaded pictures of her and they have been circulating those pictures amongst themselves in group chats accompanied by extremely sexual commentary about what they all want to do with her. By now we’ve meted out appropriate discipline to those male athletes, except we’ve kept one 18 year old male freshman on our team whose only crime really was being the recipient of the pictures of C. He did not actively take part in any of this mess. Last week, just as an icebreaker between the boy and C, we got him to hold her legs in place as she did her situps, and we immediately split them up when we found C crying and clutching her tank top, kicking herself away from the boy. Nothing really happened between them aside from the boy talking to C while she was doing her situps, and this apparently really upset her. A few days after this incident, I felt like C really needed a break, so I took her to a restaurant near campus to treat her to her favorite food, smoked salmon. It was all on me, and while we sat down eating, C started talking about what why exactly the boy upset her so much. She started talking about how she noticed him staring through her shorts and how he even twirled her tank top’s straps with his fingers. I saw her struggling not to cry as she told me that she regretted wearing just a “skimpy” (in her own words) tank top and shorts that day. Before she could say any more, I quickly cut her off and said TMI (I’m not interested in having someone more than 10 years younger than me sexualize herself like that). This pissed her off enough that she just grumpily stopped eating and lightly shoved her salmon towards me. She had a sad look on her face and just grumbled that it was all our fault that we didn’t kick that freshman off of the team.

😈MedicPig🐷BabySaver😈Nov 5

AITA for not speaking to a life long friend because I want an apology?

https://lemmy.world/post/38369577

AITA for not speaking to a life long friend because I want an apology? - Lemmy.World

AITA, on April 29th, I noticed a FB post from my BFF, it’s theme was about “leaving a party early”. My BFF notoriously falls asleep early and drifts away from any gatherings at his house. In the comments section, I posted a photo from about '92-'93, of him sleeping on a couch. I’m in the photo behind the couch. Two other friends are at each end of the couch. Either sitting on the armrest or leaning on it. No booze, drugs or anyone flipping the bird. IMO: very innocent photo. A couple of days after my photo comment, he sent at least 3 text in rapid fire mode. Essentially “screaming” at me to delete that photo. It took a brief moment to get onto FB and delete that photo. But, those texts all came in faster than I could take care of the situation. Keep in mind, it’s on HIS FB page, he had full control to delete the photo himself. Then, he could’ve “yelled” at me via text/phone call. IMO: he owes me an apology for the way he “screamed” at me via text. We haven’t said more than “Hey.” at any group gatherings since the episode. AITA?

RustyOwlNov 5

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GrimreaperOct 31

AITAH For not caring that my friends child is dying?

https://sopuli.xyz/post/36013062

AITAH For not caring that my friends child is dying? - Sopuli

My 21M friend 24F My 4-year-old son is sick and is dying, and I just don’t care now. In fairness, it’s my friend’s (22M) sibling, but I know her too, and I guess you could say we are “friends”, but I seriously just don’t care about her kid. Their parents won’t help them financially with the kids’ treatments, she told me, and while yes, I could help them, I choose not to because, like I said, I don’t care for them. I don’t hate them, but I’m just apathetic towards them. AITAH

Deidre.Aug 15, 2025
#MakeMyChoice - Should I work fast food or retail as a first job? | #reddit #redditstories #aita #aitah #amitheasshole
DaddysLittleSlutAug 2, 2025

AITAH for Stealing my Father's second Wife?

https://lemmy.world/post/33880301

AITAH for Stealing my Father's second Wife? - Lemmy.World

Hey so warning before we start this will be NSFW. Beginning So I am 20m this happened with I was 19m. I was hoping into the shower and due to my beliefs in magic being energy to matter manipulation. I can create warp drives in bodies. So I believe I may of had my Estrus Cycle (and yes I do have one biologically it’s cross species development of traits) or I just was really horny but forgot. Though I absolutely hate my Father. For all the abuse, cheating on my actual mother. With this Second Lady. So I created a warp drive inside of her body. Pulling her to me. When she arrived. I don’t know why but her body was instantaneously put into an Estrus cycle matching mine. Which may of been a byproduct of everything. I’m not really certain. Then I decided to fuck her in the shower. Until she gained an attachment tattoo to me and I told her to just go back act like nothing happened. I wanted her laying next to him. My scent so familiar but unrecognizable in that form, the marks on her neck and bites. A clear sign of something happening. Her moans becoming different. Her not even looking at him in the same way, not touching him the same way. Even an unfamiliar way of action that she never gave him but the possibility of her moaning my name is so desirable. So he slowly realized. Even her having my cum dripping out of her. If she just gets done with a session and just passes out on their bed. Btw I do mean everything literally.