Grabe, one misunderstanding crashes all the good deeds you've done. When you remind them about all the good deeds you made you will be labelled as nanunumbat.
The more you do good deeds and prevent yourself from disturbing other groups of people, the more it seems you are the bad person.
I take pride from not asking anyone else for help about my own problems. But it seemed like people would only acknowledge your presence if you still need help from them.
I learned that just because you go out of your way for people, it doesn't mean they will do the same for you.
Makes me angry but at the same time saddens me.