Now it is time to start wading into the difficult things that need to be said. Speaking as an American, who only knows how things work in the American system, our systems completely lack nuance. Voting has no nuance whatsoever. We cannot say "I want this politician, but I don't want them to do xyz." This means that when we vote for our politicians, our leaders, we are voting for the entirety of what they are campaigning on. When a politician campaigns with messages of hate and violence and we vote for, support, or endorse them, we are committing hate and violence by proxy. Just like how person A's hands were not clean neither are ours. So when we vote for, support, or endorse someone who preaches hate and violence against certain groups of people we are committing an act of violence. Support of violence is violence, whether we act it out ourselves or not.
Recently I discovered that someone I had considered a friend openly supports and endorses people who campaign on hate and violence. The person they support campaigns on hate and violence targeted at people like me. So, given everything that I have explained already, I hope you will understand /why/ I feel as though this "friend" as committed an act of violence and hate against me and people like me. I am nonbinary, I am demisexual, I am pansexual, I am disabled, and I was born with a female body. When people support, endorse, or vote for people who preach hatred and violence against trans people, queer people, LGBTQIA+, disabled people, and want to diminish the rights of people who were born with female bodies, that is an act of violence against me too.
Let me abundantly clear. I DO NOT TOLERATE HATE OR VIOLENCE IN ANY DIRECTION. Let me repeat that. I do not tolerate hate or violence in any direction. I actively push hate out of my heart. Hate begets more hate and the cycle must stop if we want our species to continue to exist. I do not hate the people who do these things, but I am very sad, disappointed and hurt. I truly believe we can be so much more than what we are right now, and that is a future I am willing to put myself in danger for. This is why I am having this conversation with you now.
So it is with a heavy heart that I share this message with you. If I discover that you are actively committing hate and violence towards others, or are practicing hate and violence by proxy I will ban and block you from my spaces. This is for safety. This is not about hate. I will never name names, name and shame, or engage in or endorse, support or vote for witch hunting, harassment, violence or hate. I will not tolerate witch hunting, harassment, violence or hate. If I find out that anyone is witch hunting the people that I quietly ban and block, is harassing them, preaching or committing hate or violence towards them, the witch hunters will share the same fate. All witch hunters will be blocked and banned as well.
I do not tolerate hate or violence in any form. My spaces are safe spaces for all and there is zero room for those things here.
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