Hey, kids,
(kids in this case being literally anyone younger than I am, but especially anyone in that weird gap between 18 and ~25 where most world governments will acknowledge your personhood but your brain still hasn't reached its final form)
The world is shit right now. You know it, I know it, anyone really paying attention knows it. This can make *everything* just feel so much worse, from getting caught in traffic to stubbing your toe on furniture to new realizations about the lengths shitheads will go to hurt people.
Please try not to automatically assume that things will never get better, or that something someone said that hurt you was said with genuine malice.
With the latter? People make mistakes, and tone doesn't come across as intended sometimes - particularly if it was over text. Take context into account.
As for the former? Things can get better, they have historically gotten better, and I believe that they *will* get better so long as we're still screaming about how awful things are.
That said, I also believe that things *can't* get better if we just give up. Why? That's simple. Giving up is what the fascists and abusers of the world *want us to do,* because if we give up? They suddenly get everything they wanted without having to fight nearly as hard for it.
