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Thanks… This helps a lot Both side need to be aware, work on it and meet mid way for it to work, I am being mindful, it’s going to be hard to control instincts and impulses, but I think it would be a little easier if I see effort from her as well
That’s amazing Thanks for the insight

Is it possible for us with ADHD to date an avoidant?

https://lemmy.world/post/39728343

Is it possible for us with ADHD to date an avoidant? - Lemmy.World

My natural instincts seem like all the things you need to avoid with an avoidant partner like overwhelming intensity of feelings, going all in, oversharing, excitement, showing raw feelings etc. I was wondering if it’s even sustainable. In case it’s not a run while you can scenario, I would appreciate any advice for an early talking stage with an avoidant and later stages if it goes well Thanks!!

Hmm, I didn’t even consider it, but could work out for me as well, at least for a while, as I already have a laptop which works really well, just the gpu is what really needed an upgrade.
@OwlYaYeet please help me with these doubts-

  • how is steamOS for privacy (steam stuff), I it possible to stop all steam related activity.
  • How easy it is to setup lutris/heroic to play my gog games? (compared to setting it up on regular arch let’s say)
  • forgot to answer the second point, moving would be great, laptop + egpu would work, would help while travelling. But a desktop sounds more interesting without the comprosises, could get a weaker laptop for travel if needed I guess.
    Luckily, I got really exhausted and frustated, so hopefully it ended for now. I’ll do mostly browsing, programming, some servers always running in the background like jellyfin. Then I’ll be playing single player games on 2k ultrawide. Thinking all AMD for now, I’ll consider nvidia for path tracing for the next upgrade, but don’t need ray tracing for now. Would like to reasonably futureproof it.
    Thanks, great advice.

    Hyperfixated on building a desktop, it's probably going to put me back ~2k EUR.

    https://lemmy.world/post/16973781

    Hyperfixated on building a desktop, it's probably going to put me back ~2k EUR. - Lemmy.World

    I have been wanting to build a desktop for a while now, but I held back because I plan to move overseas in near future, and build it there, which I know is the right thing to do. But I have spent ~24 hours in last 3 days researching specs and right build for me. I “need” to know :p. If I act on it, I’ll have to sell the new monitor, tower case, power supply (the bulky items) just after few months of use, once I move overseas, only taking remaining parts with me. This sudden hyperfixation is crazy. Have slept just 3 hours today (when my body just gave up and shut down). Just thought I’ll share.

    This is not recommended for USB connected drives
    Stopped gnome-disks format at 78% (~6 hours remaining).
    Used #sudo dd if=/dev/zero of=/dev/sda1 bs=1M seek=1001250 status=progress, write speed is ~100 MB/s.
    Thanks a ton!